There’s a version of you that knows how to survive.

She’s polished.
She’s productive.
She’s powerful.
She keeps it all together.
And she never, EVER lets them see her bleed.

She built your career.
She raised your kids.
She made the money.
She made the hard decisions.
She earned the respect.

But here’s what she didn’t make:
Peace.
Presence.
Real joy.
Rest.
Room for you.

Because the truth is, she wasn’t built for that.
She was built to protect.
To perform.
To survive.

And now?
She’s expired.
But you’re still performing her like your life depends on it.

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You haven’t felt yourself in a long time.

You’ve noticed the dull ache.
The hollow hustle.
The way your wins feel like a checklist, not a celebration.

You don’t feel broken.
You just feel… disconnected.
Unmoved.
Like the lights are on, but you’ve stepped out of your own body and nobody’s home.

Let me say what most won’t:

You’re not confused.

You’re not behind.

You’re not falling apart.

You’re stuck…

performing a version of you that was built to survive,

but is now suffocating the one who’s trying to actually live.

And here’s the kicker:
Because you’re high-functioning in your stuckness… no one knows.

You still show up.
You still slay.
You still get shit done.

But deep down?
You feel numb.
You’ve looped so long in your pattern, you’ve forgotten what it feels like to live outside of it.

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You know how I know?
Because I’ve been there. Recently.

I found myself in a moment where everything was technically “working.”
Business was great.
Clients were thriving.
Everyone saw me as powerful, present, whole.

And yet…

I was disconnected from the very things that used to move me.
My edge didn’t feel gone.
It felt buried.

You didn’t lose your edge.

You handed it over….one silent self-betrayal at a time.

The Enneagram didn’t just show me who I am.
It showed me where I left her.
Where I traded vulnerability for control.
Power for performance.
Truth for safety.

And that trade?
It’s expensive.
It costs you everything.
Your peace.
Your purpose.

Your presence.

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Let’s call it what it is:

STUCK isn’t a mood. It’s a loop.
It’s what happens when your personality becomes a prison.
When you’ve outgrown your identity…but keep choosing it because it’s what everyone expects of you. And it’s all you know.

You don’t need another strategy.
You don’t need a journal prompt.
You don’t need to manifest your way out.

You need a mirror.
And the guts to use it.

Because deep down, you already know:

✨ You’re not meant to lead from exhaustion.
✨ You’re not meant to love through control.
✨ You’re not meant to live in a loop you mastered at age 8.

You were made to disrupt, not disappear.
You were made to burn clean, not burn out.
You were made to lead from your edge—not your performance pattern.

And that edge? It’s not gone.
It’s buried.
But it’s not dead.

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I recorded Episode 422 for this version of you.
The one who’s smart enough to know something’s off…
but strong enough to keep pretending everything’s fine.

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And if you’re done living in the loop—
If you’re ready to unbury your edge, reclaim your clarity, and finally be held in something real…

I’ve opened up a few private VIP Days this month.
These aren’t fluff.
They’re not surface.
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Your survival pattern did its job.
But now it’s stealing your edge.

How long are you going to keep performing a version of you that’s already expired?

Let’s stop calling it strength.

Let’s start telling the truth.

And let’s go get her back.