You didn’t come here to play games with your life.
You didn’t start asking deeper questions just to get answers generated in 2.2 seconds..
And yet…here you are.
Lost in a loop of online quizzes, AI-generated type breakdowns, and half-true insights that sound right but don’t land.
You’re not alone.
I’ve watched thousands of smart, soulful, well-intentioned people go searching for clarity and end up with confusion wrapped up in a facade.
Not because you’re shallow. Not because you’re lazy.
But because you’re hungry…for truth. For relief. For yourself.
So when AI tells you who you are, it’s tempting to trust it.
It feels polished. Fast. Authoritative.
It gives you an identity you can hold onto for a moment.
Until the contradictions set in.
Until you realize you’re still stuck…just using prettier language.
And that’s when the ache returns.
The quiet one that says,
“I thought this would help me feel like me again… but it still doesn’t feel like home.”
Let me say what no AI tool ever will:
You are not a formula.
You are not a file to be decoded.
You are not here to be efficient…you’re here to be whole.
Why You’re Drawn to AI (and Why That’s Not a Problem)
You’ve likely asked AI:
“What’s my Enneagram type?”
“Why do I keep sabotaging?”
“What does this mean about me?”
You’re not wrong for asking.
It makes perfect sense.
Because when life feels loud and heavy..when you’re grieving, burned out, rebuilding, or simply ready to evolve—it’s natural to crave something that makes sense of it all.
AI promises answers that feel clean.
But your healing isn’t clean. It’s sacred.
And what you really want?
Isn’t just information.
It’s to be seen. To be understood. To feel like you can trust yourself again.
AI might scratch the surface. But it can’t hold your story.
It can’t track all the things you have been thru.
It doesn’t know when your confidence is just a cover for exhaustion.
It can’t tell the difference between your patters and your prayer.
It Doesn’t See Your Soul. It Sees Your Strategy.
Here’s what no one tells you about AI-generated typing:
It’s not reflecting your essence.
It’s reflecting the way you cope.
If you’ve been rewarded for over-functioning…
If you’ve had to perform, polish, peace, or charm to stay safe or seen…
If your nervous system is wired for protection before being who you truly are..
then guess what?
AI will mirror that.
Not the you beneath the coping. Not the you beneath the performance.
Just the part of you that’s been surviving so long, it forgot it was pretending.
So no..AI isn’t giving you your type.
It’s handing you your persona. A package.
And that might feel familiar, but it’s not the truth that sets you free.
Even When It Has Your Type Right, It Often Gets the Map Wrong
Even if AI has your type right (if you have gotten my blueprint), it often misrepresents the framework of the Enneagram itself.
I’ve seen it give outdated, boxed-in descriptions of wings.
I’ve seen it flatten instincts into personality quirks.
I’ve seen it confuse disassociation with “growth,” and completely misread tritypes or integration paths.
Here’s the hard truth:
Even when AI has the type right,, it often gets the meaning wrong.
Because AI pulls from what’s popular, not what’s accurate.
And your soul is too precious to be shaped by a trending algorithm.
The Enneagram isn’t here to box you in.
It’s here to call you back.
To help you remember who you were before you were shaped by pain & patterns that maybe once kept you safe, but no longer serves you..
Before the world rewarded your mask more than your truth.
You Can’t Automate Integration. You Have to Live It.
Knowing your type isn’t the work.
It’s just the doorway.
Real integration is quiet, disorienting, and worth every second.
It’s catching yourself mid-pattern and choosing a new path.
It’s sitting in the fire without losing yourself.
It’s tearing down what kept you safe so you can finally feel free.
And that kind of work?
It’s not programmable.
It’s personal.
This isn’t a template.
This is your life.
And no machine can walk you through the parts where you unravel, get real, and finally decide to stop shrinking or pretending.
That’s work only you can do—with presence, with truth, with time.
AI can reflect behavior.
But it can’t track the trembling in your voice.
It can’t tell when your answer is rehearsed.
It can’t hold silence with you until your real truth rises.
That’s not a knock on AI.
It’s not something to outsource. It’s something to own.
AI can’t see the parts of you that need this the most.
I’m not anti-AI. I use it. I appreciate it.
But I also know its limits.
You can use AI:
- To journal more honestly
- To identify language patterns you didn’t notice
- To ask new questions that spark curiosity
But don’t let it:
- Define your identity
- Diagnose your patterns
- Override your own truth…or the presence of someone who can really help you see it.
Use it like a flashlight.
But you still walk the path.
And ideally, you don’t walk it alone.
You don’t need better language for the same old pain. You need your edge back.
If you’ve been mistyped, misunderstood, or misled—by AI, by a quiz, by a well-meaning coach…I want you to hear me:
You are not broken.
You are not behind.
You are just being called to something real.
This work?
It’s sacred.
And it deserves sacred guidance.
That’s why I created the Enneagram Edge Foundations Program—starting September 3rd.
Four weeks of live, embodied teaching with me—no fluff, no filler, no pre-recorded quick fixes.
Just the full, accurate, nuanced framework of the Enneagram taught with soul and precision—so you can finally feel held, not just labeled and sent on your way..
You’ve waited long enough.
Let’s move from a quick fix to mastery.
From coping to clarity.
From data to devotion.
Let’s remember who the hell you really are.
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